Friday, July 31, 2009

Life A Journey of Happiness and Sadness

Everyday, all of heard people complains about their lives and the situations that they are facing..but how many out they will really look into the problems and instead of dwelling or blaming on the issue but look for ways to solve each individual problem..Life was never meaningful to me for the past 7 years up till now, it was something that change my perspection of life last year and this year...finally i underdstand that life can never be so meaningful if it is a smooth sailing one....A person who truely live an exciting life is when he/she had went to his lowest bottom of his life and able to overcome His problems even after many times of failure..he still leading a psoitive and optimistic lives...People who are able to to stand out from their failure after one another are someone who deserved to be praise and admired for their fighting spirit...In Life, it's never easy to make everyone happy around you but it is easy to make someone smile by doing some Acts of Kindness, Nobody can lead a life without having facing diffcult situation, we can always make each situations a learning curve in life and make it as a motivation to do something even better in the future...A true life story abt myself, life was nvr easy for me ever since i turned the age of 18, i went thru an extradordinary path where not many people of my age will go through at that time,when i 1st encounter, i was devasted and could not accept i feel that life was unfair or rather say God was unfair,i thought i had went thru the worst in life, but later part of this year, life was even harsher for me, i was put to lots of trails in life and the worst was the news that i been trying not to think abt it hv come to light and finally my years of suspecting had come to concludsion, it was heartbroken, though was mentally prepare for it, but somehow human are funny creature, even they predicted the outcome but they will still like to choose to deceive themself in a way, maybe that the easy way to balance on emotion i guess, thanks to all the support frm frens, colleagues and people around who care for me make it slightly easier for me to cope in a way or cos i hv encounter too much that nw i am abl eto handle it...i guess both ways do play a part of it...Finally, i realised that the journey of life is like a joke, it can make people feel so helpless and hopeless, it can also made one feel it as exciting as a roller coaster, and even look forward to it....but all this depend on one decision in the mind of that person...Whether to make a your life journey a memorable one even it is tough or a life that you never want to remember is all depend on how to want things to happened....One important lesson i learnt from my experience is that, whatever thing i go through is not a problem or task but it is the process of how u overcome each situations and become a stronger and confident person....Once u enjoy the process of it, nothing can make u feel disappointed...As there is a quote saying, LIfe can never be so exciting and meaningful, if one never encounter problems or hit the lowest bottom of their life...It is only thru this process that your true life begins.